One day you meet someone and the next day you can’t imagine life without them. We all love our friends, they are the family that we choose. But best friends are also sisters or brothers, therapists, hairdressers, fashion advisers and more. They love us, understand us, make us laugh, hold us, cry with us, listen to our drama, and advise us with our best interests at heart. Friends are amazing!
But often we get wrapped up in our own lives and we forget to check in, a day becomes a week, or months and sometimes years. Remember, they also chose us and we need to be their listener too. We must be there for them, to ask how they are and actually want to know how they are feeling deep down. To sit, to listen and to hear the true meaning behind their words.
I love my friends like crazy. I don’t see them as much as I’d like to as they live in different areas or even different countries. But they are always there for me when I need them, even if its just the end of a phone call or text message. Often I send them random messages just to remind them how grateful I am that I have them in my life. I want them to know that even with how different our lives are now compared to when we first met or when we were growing up, I still love them with all my heart. Recently I have tried to make more of an effort to check in on my friends because what is life, if they were not in it.
Have a nice day!